When separation is synonymous with cohabitation
Separate in form but united by a common heritage, can we still speak of separation since break is cut precisely to "link".
How to find a compromise family if a compromise sale?
In the same way you might have to negotiate the sale price of your home, you go into the circumstances negotiate a transitional life together, that despite all your separation and especially when there are children you live right even a couple and you are uncertain about the outcome of this situation uncomfortable and unstable.
Some decide to flee, to return as late as possible to avoid the conflict by allowing the spouse to take care of every single family organization, others are in permanent conflict recognizing and commenting on each of their acts.
Finally, in one case as in the other, it is clear that there is a poor parental destructuring for children who are witnesses to the disintegration of family structure and torque.
More than ever you need to communicate, send your views and share information to find the best solution.
- Talk rather than shouting for it in the calm that you can hear and understand you.
- No crisis of authority, you must be in the exchange where everyone can express his point of view.
- Set all day out for everyone and a "common time" to share with your children
- Meet your commitments, each must rely on his spouse and not crush unnecessary criticism.
You've decided to separate in an economic context that you are not positive, this requires you to wait, this will ask you cool, and tolerance towards your partner and your children, because if you could save your marriage you still then get rid of the best.
Use this time to share together and made into a force to accompany and prepare your child for this separation to come.
