What future for your marriage?

In the life of a couple of steps will succeed without giving you the opportunity to go back. Therefore it is important to imagine all kind of life you want to live more or less long term. Imagine the future of your marriage.

For example, if you like any two out in nightclubs or to travel with friends, it is necessary to plan, to the extent possible, the time when your first child arrives, because it will challenge the organization your free time and your marriage. Ditto for the purchase of a dwelling must amputate the budget vacation. Also consider what you will do if one of them retires before the other, or when the last child leaves the family home.

It is often said that "prevention is cure. In a couple, look to the future returns to find ways to address the hazards of life in the best conditions, without risking one day a challenge to its operation. To avoid being overtaken by life, it is important to define common goals and think about regularly.

In the course of a couple, many questions, feelings or events can become sources of conflict. To prevent them, must be regularly grab a moment for the future of your marriage (one or two evenings a week) to talk about what is wrong and consider all your future together.

Here are some questions a couple is generally taken to arise at some time or another:

• Do we live together or we prefer to keep all our "home"?
• Do we want to buy now, or tenant still remain some time?
• Do we want a (nother) child?
• Are there dreams that we would do together?
• Can I change my job without it disrupts our finances too?
• Can I buy a new car? There does not have other priorities?
• Should we put money aside?
• How each imagines the future of his marriage?
• Where would we end our days?
• Etc..

All these issues deserve consideration. Take time to talk and discuss together the future of your marriage.