No Hay Chamba, No Love - Que Pasa the couple when the husband lost his job

No chamba, no love - who happens to the couple when the husband is out of work A dismissal can severely damage the self esteem of any man and for woman is not always easy to see her husband at home defeated. Unfortunately in 2009 and probably even in 2010 many couples have to face this problem because the current economic situation has caused many firms undertake downsizing and obviously it affects the couple. In a society like ours, despite how advanced or evolved, many of the women stay at home and the husband is the one who brings the money, which makes you feel capable and powerful man, since it is he who controls income and household expenses and the woman is totally dependent on the husband. But do not just as a negative aspect, in contrast, often this situation is very comfortable for both sides. But what happens when the husband fired? The man may feel unable to support his family. These feelings are a source for many tense and litigation. For the man is much more difficult to face a situation of failure and especially a discharge. It is an enormous damage to his ego. His wife knows he has to support him but when things start to have prolonged breaks in the relationship. Often in these situations there is no desire to have intimate relations which make things worse. Also if the wife works and is dependent, there is tension in this situation. A woman does not like seeing their partner at home without work. At this time women tend to forget the theories about gender and resent that they are the ones to bring income and the husband is not home. You can press to turn every stone in search of work, so as not to see him unshaven sitting on the couch. So how to help the couple in this situation? The worst thing a woman can do is criticize and just walk away. The best way to survive an economic crisis is bound to stay together. It may take the opportunity, thus strengthening the couple, now that the husband is not so busy and spends more time at home. The secret is to speak openly about the situation without blame and with respect to each other.