How to save my marriage? he (she) is in relationship with his ex

It is preferable when there are children from a previous relationship, to be in relationship with the "parent" because if we're not husband and wife we remain forever the parents of our children.

Separation is it used for many years?

When nya more challenges in love, it is then possible to share his ex a friendly relationship, it can then become a confidant and support without any ambiguity since there is no reproach, nor simply a request and a shared sense the fair hearing.

The separation is only recent?

It is then important to discuss you, one needs to break into a grieving process and this necessarily implies to be remote.

No commitment possible if we do not put an end to our old love story.

Anyway you will not get your spouse to listen and empathy in the complaint being aggressive and / or anger.

You quickly become oppressive (e), invasive (e) .. and you give him the desire to quickly return to "the past".

Stop waiting for a change in his hand, and provoke change yourself, be in action.

Ask yourself why you are also invaded by fear of losing him or her that you love.

Because it's still with you that your spouse shares his married life in the here and now. "

Facing a couple problem: Some tips to use:

- Make suggestions and ask him his views.
- Take the distance in order not to engage in ongoing conflicts.
- Restore you trust and dialogue.